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  • Fuller Bust Underwear from Tutti Rouge

    Fuller Bust Underwear from Tutti Rouge

    Ad – I received items from Tutti Rouge in exchange for this blog post. All opinions remain my own.

    I’ve always been a busty woman and it has been an absolute joy to find more companies offering ‘curve’ ‘plus size’ and ‘fuller bust’ ranges in their underwear collections. All bodies deserve good quality, well fitting, comfortable underwear that makes them feel supported and sexy. I was thrilled when Tutti Rouge – Fuller Bust Underwear offered some items from their collection in exchange for a review.

    Tutti Rogue Lingerie
    Another look at the Baylie Rougette set with high waisted brief. I love the supportive waistband on these.

    Tutti Rouge pride themselves on providing sexy, shaping, supported and stylish lingerie

    Do you know what I loved when I first clicked on the Tutti Rouge website? A whole manner of different bodies. I absolutely love this. I love that Tutti have asked a range of bloggers to share their own photos as well as having professional photos on their site of all different kind of lingerie wearing people. I saw rolls, I saw curves, I saw wide hips, tattooed bodies, fuller busts and all on people that looked like they were wearing something that made them feel good. This is so vital for young women shopping for lingerie. It’s vital to see somethat that makes you feel like you are worth spending money on to feel good. Different bodies are all over the website so I am proud to share products from a company that so clearly values diversity. I genuinely think no matter your size or shape shopping with Tutti Rouge will make you feel confident and you will find something you like.

    This is not me but this is what the Body Suit looks like in full thanks to Tutti Rouge for supplying the Image

    Tutti Rouge offer a range of lingerie including bras, bralettes, knickers and bodysuits. There are a few different styles in each category including fuller bust bras and high waisted knickers. Colours include black, pink, purple and red among others. I know it’s a bit frustrating not trying things on right now however, according to Tutti’s FAQ’s they accept returns for faulty items and items not to your satisfaction providing the labels and hygiene stickers are still intact.

    What Sizes do Tutti Rouge Stock?

    The range goes to a XS – 6XL which I think is a good range. Bras are available up to a 48G. There is an international sizing chart on the website which is really helpful. The items I received were a 24/26 high waisted knickers, 6XL Body and a 40G/GG (Bralette). I felt these were true to size and a comfortable fit for me. When discussing what items to review I provided my size and colour and just asked for something Tutti Rouge felt would be a good fit and I was thrilled with what I received.

    My Review of Tutti Rouge Lingerie

    I received a Bralette and Knicker set and a Body suit in exchange for this blog post and I was thrilled with what I received. I’ve never tried a bralette before but I am totally converted. Being so top heavy I don’t feel comfortable or confident enough to leave the house without a bra. Being busty has often meant I either have thin straps which are easy to cover up but a lot of underwire which does get a bit uncomfortable wearing day in, day out. The other option is a non wired bra which has super thick straps over the shoulders for support which just doesn’t make me feel good when wearing strap sleeve dresses. The Tutti Rouge Bralette is a really happy medium for me.

    The Baylie Bralette was in the Rougette range which is the curvier products available.The material was nice and soft, with a mesh, fishnet appearance and the straps a good size and I felt supported whilst wearing it. I think this is due to the wide underbust band which looks like it might be restrictive but it was actually really comfortable for me. I love the colour too, it’s so much nicer having underwear in a range of colours rather than the regular black, nude or white. It was just nice and comfortable really. Perfect for casual wear or just if you don’t want wire. I will absolutely try more Bralettes in the future. I also got a matching pair of high waisted briefs which were super comfortable. Again the thick band made kept everything in the right place and I wore alongside jeans.

    The other item I received was the Hallie Body suit which is a black, lacy design but with a super supportive waist. It feels really lovely on with super soft material and just like good quality lingerie. I really like body suits and I think they’re a great option for plus sized people. They can be super stretchy but still make you feel really contained and show off your shape in all the best ways. The razor back style support with the thick waist band makes this ideal under dresses, I think. It just covers things really nicely and feels nice on. It gives you support in all the right places and it looks fabulous.

    Anything else I need to know about Tutti Rouge?

    There’s a student discount offer of 15% through a student beans account. Dispatch and delivery to the UK is between 2-10 days depending on the order and location. Items are shipped through Royal Mail and tracking is available if you select next day delivery. You can get free worldwide delivery on orders over £50.There is a sale section too. Prices all seem to be under £30 per item with many around the £20 mark which I think is an excellent price for good quality, comfortable lingerie for a variety of body shapes and sizes.

  • Smouldering, Sexy and Smut filled Romantic Reads you must have on your shelves in 2021

    Smouldering, Sexy and Smut filled Romantic Reads you must have on your shelves in 2021

    Are you looking for some sexy, simmering romantic reads just in time for Valentines Day? This list will have you covered from sexual tension, relentless pining, mutual yearning that will fufill that ‘just kiss already’ feeling of your one true pairings

    Romantic Reads I’ve Loved

    Romantic reads might not be for everyone but I am absolutely in the mood for them. My favourite series is continuing with A Court of Silver Flames, one of my most anticipated reads of 2021. It is bound to be full of hate to love passion, just kiss already tension and is rumoured to be the sexiest book yet. A Court of Silver Flames has the potential to be one of the hottest books this year. I thought, with the help of some friends and bookstagrammers, I would put together a list of romance reads we recommend giving a try. These range from fantasy to contemporary so hopefully you will find some of the best romantic reads of 2021.

    What Are The Best Romantic Reads to Read in 2021?

    I am going to kick off with one of my favourite enemies to lovers romantic reads ever. In fact, A Court of Mist and Fury is one of my top five books. I am currently rereading this one via audio book so I am fully in the world of Prythia and ready for the Nessian story next month. If you gave up with the series after A Court of Thorns and Roses then I beg you to continue on with the trilogy as A Court of Mist and Fury is another level. For a middle book it really sets up the rest of the story. In fact, the real trilogy feels like the last two books and the novella as that is where we see the protagonist, Feyre, really come into her own and meet her soul mate. This book has the tropes enemies to lovers and on noes there’s only one bed. It is one of those ‘Just Kiss Already’ stories that I can not get enough of and you have a pretty lengthy wait but oh my is it worth it.

    Next was a book recommended way back when from my friend Jenny and that is The Bargainer series by Laura Thalassa. This book series starts with Rhapsodic and continues as a trilogy and novella. Another fantasy read featuring a Fae king and a Siren, both are snarky characters. The series is set in a mix of modern day and high fantasy world. It’s super sexy when they finally come together, it’s funny and it’s a pretty good love story throughout.

    For a contemporary read I am very much enjoying The Flatshare on audio. It was a really sweet, funny and happy read with lovely romance. There were some negative relationship aspects in the book but not from the two main characters and actually I felt like it challenged a lot of typical romance tropes.

    Take a Hint, Dani Brown – I started with this but I think it’s the second book? I’m not sure. But this is basically book pornography. It’s deliciously smutty with simmering sexual tension and laugh out loud funny. It deals with generalised anxiety disorder in an amazing way and is fully contemporary with references to social media. It has everything with bisexual rep, bipoc characters and just it’s a wonderful read. This author is wholly addictive and I will certainly be reading more.

    Another Fantasy read with a lot of sexual tension is From Blood and Ash. However, the sequel, that’s where all the sexiness is. From Blood and Ash is super sexy but very much a slow burn. However, diving into the sequeal and all those moments of ‘pretending’ between Poppy and Hawke are just delightful. I love Poppy’s rage and passion. I love the chemisty between the two and I can not wait for April when we will see the third book in the series.

    the from blood and ash books are some of my favourites
  • Making Bath Time Fun with Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime Range

    Making Bath Time Fun with Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime Range

    Ad – Gifted Products – I received some products in exchange for this feature. All opinions are my own.

    I recently read that if kids are getting a bit bored there are two things you can do to help them – get them outside or get them in water. There are of course times when getting outside just isn’t feasible, especially close to bed time and a bath is something my two-year old absolutely loves. Bath times are fun! I was sent some products from Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range to try out and have a bit of fun in water. You can view the full range of products at Crazy for Kids.

    Testing Out Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime Range

    He looks so happy! Honestly, it’s been a lot of fun trying these products out with my toddler, Felix. He loves water, he loves a bubble bath and I really think it’s important to encourage young boys to have little moments of self care like this. I know he’s only young but I hope baths continue to make him feel happy and a way to relax. He might not want to always play with foamable soap – although my eldest has had a go too and she still loves fun bath products – an early encouragement with sensory play will help show him that a little bit of pampering and some funky products can sometimes make you feel good.

    A smiling toddler in the bath with some Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime products on the side. These include colour changing bubble bath and moldable foam soap.
    Felix loves a good bath and having some fun bathtime products from the Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime Range makes him happy!

    We have used similar products in the past to encourage fun water play with him so we were really happy to try the Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range. This included the Colour Changing Bubble bath and two bottles of squirty foam soap which you can shape and dissolves in the water. We received a bottle of blue foam soap and a bottle of pink foam soap. This can be used in the bath or for supervised sensory play out of the water. We opt for in the bath to keep it all contained and it still provides some sensory fun. The soaps are described as Hypoallergenic and Dermatologically tested, PH balanced formula to gently cleanse and moisturise delicate skin. SLES and Paraben free. Felix has had no reaction at all to using these products which is brilliant. We had fun with these by squirting them into little plastic pots and making them look like ice cream cones.

    A toddler in the bath with his hand up. An adult hand is holding a bottle of foaming soap and squeezing it into the toddlers hand. There are some Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range products in the foreground.
    Felix was fasicnated by the Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range foamable soap.

    We haven’t tried the colour changing bubble bath yet from the Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range but it looks like another fun product that I’m sure Felix will love. Changing water colour is another fun sensory experience for toddlers. Obviously one of us is always in the bathroom with him to supervise and make sure he’s clean but it’s so much fun watching him explore the foam soap whilst getting himself clean. One of his favourite things to do is shape the foam and then clap his hands so it goes all over the water. The foam is a really soft consistency and just has a sort of soapy/sublte shaving foam scent. It is squishy and dissolves in the water.

    Mostly I just love seeing my little boy happy and having fun. He really does love a good bath and having his own products just for him from the Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range gives him a chance to be creative and be a little independent by washing his own body. I think sensory play is really important for babies and toddlers and having a fun convinient product that is safe for my babies skin whilst helping to get him clean is a win for me!

    Kids Stuff Crazy Bathtime range is available to purchase at Boots and Superdrug. There is currently a promotion running until 6th April for the Colour Changing Bubble Bath. You can also purchase online at Amazon and there is an affiliate link below if you would like to purchase.

  • How We FINALLY got a PS5

    How We FINALLY got a PS5

    If you, like me, have been trying to get a PS5 FOR MONTHS then you will know it’s no easy feat. The newest console was released in November 2020 and preorders sold out incredibly quickly. Add in a global pandemic, people off work and furloughed, factories and ports running on skeleton staff as well as, here in the UK, all the issues Brexit has caused and you have a bit of a delay getting stock delivered. And then, you have people wanting to exploit this and make a huge profit. Now, I know people flip merchandise and tech products but I have never seen something quite so bad as this. There has been a whole system of people setting up bots to purchase all stock from retailers within the same minute of Playstation 5’s going online. This has included various retailers like Currys, Smyths, John Lewis, Game and Very – amongst a few others. It’s been really frustrating for genuine gamers who just like to play video games. This leaves us with two options – wait for stock to drop and attempt fastest finger first or buy one for double, sometimes triple the price on eBay.

    Where Can I Buy a PS5 now in the UK?

    The good news is most retailers are stocking them online more often but still quite sporadically. Stock is coming into the UK and more people are having better luck getting them from electronics and homeware retailiers such as Amazon, Very, Currys, Smyths, AO and ShopTo. BT customers have been able to get one from BT and John Lewis has stocked as well. Game regularly open up for preorders for their next big stock drop too. The bad news is they go out of stock very quickly thanks to people using bots to buy out all the stock virtually the same minute it comes in. I would not recommend buying one from eBay right now.

    An upright PS5 on a white surface

    It’s been a problem honestly. Usually, we aren’t too fussed wanting a next gen console straight away but we both have anticipated games releasing, work is slow and we’re still supposed to stay home. Having something to do, for a lot of people, something to kind of take our minds off the crappy reality of a pandemic and brexit and just the mundane routine of staying home – well, a PS5 seemed like a pretty good option. Adam *almost* gave in and purchased through eBay but after looking into it in more detail and seeing that the seller would only discuss through Whatsapp rather than eBay’s messenger I was like no, that’s a scam. There are hundreds of these going on claiming to sell PS5’s but won’t communicate in the way eBay recommends so if you hand over the money and don’t get the goods you haven’t got a leg to stand on. We’ve had a friend get stung this way as well as I’ve seen parents who aren’t gamers themselves get caught out trying to get one for their children.

    Then you have the parasites, otherwise known as ‘Scalpers’ that are using bots to buy out all of the stock as soon as it goes on sale to see the prices double, triple way over the RRP. These people are just wanting to turn a huge profit and honestly in this current climate it’s really awful. Frustratingly, online retailers seem to not care because it’s still a sale for them – although some have put in a 1 per customer policy. Adding a captcha would also help eliminate bots from purchasing as well as putting the products behind an account ie – no check out as a guest option. Of course, retailers are just ‘expressing their apologies’ rather than going above and beyond to allow genuine customers the chance to purchase. The thing is, the world will start up again and stock will be readily avalable and these sellers will be forced to bring their prices right down but until then it kind of feels like The Hunger Games when trying to make a purchase.

    How Much is a PS5 now?

    The RRP of a PS5 with one controller is around £449. Depending on the retailer this can vary up to around £549 and Game have plenty of bundle deals from the digital only console at around £349 to extra accessories and disc console for around £749. It depends on what you want and how much you’re willing to spend.

    How We Snagged a PS5 in March 2021

    I will say that we got a bit lucky and that doing this process took months. More people are having more success purchasing though which is brilliant because like I am for the gamers, not the sellers trying to exploit people out of hundreds upon hundreds of extra money. Firstly, there’s a few apps you can download which send push notifications to your phone when stock is available. The App we used was ‘Hot Stock’ and you can turn notifications on for PS5’s and Xbox Series X depending on the console you’re looking for. It’s also worth checking Twitter for PS5 Restock. This is handy because they usually have pretty good sources for when stock will drop with certain retailers. Using this in conjunction with the app can be really handy for securing the console you want.

    We got lucky purchasing our PS5 recently. We knew that stock would be dropping on Very at some point. Twitter suggestted it would be around 10.30am on the Wednesday morning. Retailers seem to drop some of their stock, which does sell out in moments, then wait an hour or so before releasing more. I think this is to try and help eliminate the bot problem. We have the very app so when stock dropped it was a case of ensuring we were signed in and keep pressing refresh. The lone PS5 console sold out really quickly however Adam managed to spot one available with a 365 days of PS+ gift card. It seems to be purchasing a Playsation 5 with another item such as a gift card may be the way to secure a console.

    Then we had to play the waiting game to see when our order would be accepted. It took while and so we were in doubt for a little bit to see if the order had actually gone through but within about an our the order confirmaton came through to our email. It was stressful but I’m really glad we didn’t end up paying well over the odds for the console. I think we ended up paying £509 in total but as it was on Very and we had credit available we can spread the cost a little easier. Also, I think this made the purchase a bit smoother because we didn’t need to apply for credit like you do with Currys to spread the cost and we didn’t have to enter card details.

    A picture of a TV playing Demon's Souls on on the PS5

    Once the order had processed and the amount had been deducted from our account balance the purchase was locked in. We were given a delivery date of 31st March. However, on the Friday afternoon another email came through which informed us that our order had been dispatched and we were given tracking for Royal Mail. I thought this would just be the gift card because usually Very use Yodel. However, on Tuesday 16th March our PS5 was delivered by Royal Mail from Very. We have been using this method of stock checking and push notifications since January however, we haven’t been refreshing when stock notifcations have come through at 3am because, well, just no thank you. However, other people have been lucky this way.

    So to summarise –
    1. Follow stock accounts on Twitter and check in with their updates regularly.
    2. Get an app with push notification set up.
    3. Have an account with various retailers such as Currys, AO, Smyths, Game set up and logged in with an address and card details saved for a check checkout.
    4. Act fast when a notifcation comes through and try and get a console with an add on if you can

    I hope this has been helpful. I know it’s stressful when you really want a PS5 and just feel like paying a king’s ransom on eBay but don’t despair!

    What games are currently available on PS5?

    There isn’t a huge amount *right now* but then there never really is. I expect some games have also found themselves having to delay due to Covid. But there are some really good games available which make a PS5 worth having, some eagerly anticipated games coming and the best thing is it’s backwards compatible for PS4 games with some even getting a free PS5 upgrade. I’ve upgraded my AC Valhalla and if anything the quicker load time makes it completely worth it. I’m a huge fan of Final Fantasy so seeing that there is going to be an extra episode featuring Yuffie in between waiting for Remake Part 2 is pretty exciting and I’m really looking forward to upgrading this to the PS5 graphics. We also have Cyberpunk and Call of Duty Black Ops Cold War which are avaulble as a PS5 upgrade. We didn’t install the PS4 Cyberpunk version because of all the issues reported so I’m glad we held out but again it’s been months since we’ve been able to play anything new really.

    We are currently playing the Demon’s Souls remake which is kind of the remake I didn’t know I needed for the PS5. The graphic upgrade is absolutely amazing. The souls games are some of my favourites despite how bloody difficult they can be. It’s so nice to go back into this world ten years on and relive the challenge. We’ve also got SpiderMan Miles Morales to play which looks really good. Anticipated PS5 games we are exicted about include Resident Evil village. We really wanted a PS5 before the 8th game in the Resident Evil world due out in May 2021 and something we have now been able to preorder. I’m also really excited for Horizon Forbidden West and Final Fantasy 16. It will probably be a great few years for exciting video games.

  • Lockdown & Ninety Seven Percent

    Lockdown & Ninety Seven Percent

    I was inspired to write this after seeing a poem on Instagram by @thelizaparadox who wrote an amazing original poem that rang so true with me. I don’t really do poetry to be honest. It kind of went off on a tangent about how I don’t like the goverment but you know that’s how I am.

    I don’t understand why the people in charge
    Continue to see us stopped on a march
    Or vigil, or protest, or from simply existing
    Being someone like me feels like a terrible thing
    At times, but I want to speak up
    Things need to change, we have had enough

    When ninety-seven percent of women are scared
    To walk home, alone, in the dark, so prepared
    For violence, harrasment, catcalling and shouts
    Quickening foosteps behind them might pounce
    So we carry keys tightly clenched between fingers
    Walk quickly, well lit, flat shoes, don’t linger

    This government say they do all that they can
    For safety, equality; it’s all in their plan
    But we don’t seem to triumph, we are still asking why
    And we’re told it’s our fault, chin up, don’t cry

    When it’s so hard to find twenty quid a week
    To help feed the needy, the poor and the weak
    But easy to fund a failing system
    Of tracking and tracing covid symptoms
    The kids can go hungry, but ministers well fed
    With heavily subsidised food and drinks instead
    Those who are priveledged will say ‘not my taxpayers money’
    Because they’re conditioned to think that the poor are not worthy
    For the basic standard of living that they take for granted
    With single mums working two jobs are told they’ll get shafted

    Our healthworkers and nurses are so underpaid
    Despite a pandemic their pay is not raised
    They’ve saved countless lives despite poor personal protection
    From a virus that’s lead to so many infections
    Where people can’t breathe, can’t move and will die
    Our healthcare workers put their own lives on the line
    To save who they can, to continue to work
    Without breaks, loosing pay and the government smirks
    They’ll clap and they’ll smile and they’ll tell them thanks
    Whilst selling our healthcare system behind their backs

    Minimum wage was supposed to help us all
    To save for a home, a pension and crawl
    Out of the gutter some find themselves in
    But now those working are relying on tins
    Donated from people, shelters and food banks
    Whispers from strangers they’re poor cos they drank
    Or the smoked, or took drugs or had too many kids
    When they can’t afford it they should just get rid
    But the cost of living has been unobtainable
    Despite so many years of our ‘strong and stable’
    Government in charge making cuts left and right
    So many backed in a corner, struggling and can’t fight.

    Social media’s alive with points of be kind,
    I’m here, don’t struggle I won’t leave you behind
    Celebrating international women’s day together
    Then telling a woman you do not believe her
    Because she’s saying she struggled and nobody helped her
    So she’s an actress, a liar, and someone that’s rich
    But she’s also a mother, so it could be a glich
    In our soceity that likes to victimise women
    Make them feel like they’re problems, and demons


    Then when we protest and make ourselves heard
    We are pinned down on the floor, this is absurd
    That at the start of the week we were celebrating
    But clearly too much because it has been baiting
    A man’s ego because it’s not all men don’t you know
    But ninenty seven percent of women to mow
    Down and push to one side, out with the flow
    Of paperwork, reports that do not get filed
    In a justice system that acts so mild
    Or even worse ruins a character
    Of a victim that was brave to share what was the matter