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  • Bophut: Travelling With Kids (AD)

    Bophut: Travelling With Kids (AD)

    This is a collaborative post.

    Visiting Bophut as a Family for a beachfront holiday

    I love travelling and there are so many beautiful places I want my children to see around the world. When it comes to travelling with children you feel like you sometimes have to compromise with beautiful places for family friendly however with a little digging and a bit of research I think you can find the best of both worlds. I know when it comes to travelling with my family I want to experience a bit of culture but I also want an area I can feel relaxed and safe. It’s been a long time since we’ve had a beach holiday abroad and I’m fully convinced to go self catering in a villa next time we do.

    Villa Accomodation

    One area I would love to visit and hadn’t thought about before was Thailand but digging a little further and finding some of the beautiful islands off the mainland you come across Koh Samui. An area I think my family would absolutely love exploring is Bophut. It looks like an ideal family friendly destination with plenty of beachfront accomodation. Villa accomodation in Bophut is very popular and an ideal way to get a bit of privacy during your holiday. There are some beautiful villas in Bophut on Koh Samui to choose from with a range of prices per night, room sizes and suitable for all sorts of family sizes. Many of these have a private or shared pool which is ideal for us as we all love to swim. There are lots of gorgeous villas in Bophut to choose from.

    I think somewhere like this would be great to visit as a larger family group so that we can make the most of our stay. It’s great to see there are a range of options and most are very close to the beach. I know I’d love to have access to a pool as well as a comfortable place to sleep and of course some sort of air conditioning is a bit of a must for us. Some villas even come with staff so it’s worth having a good look and thinking about what you really need on your family friendly holiday to Bophut.

    A Swimming Pool with green tiles in a private villa that could be seen in Bophut, Koh Samui, Thailand
    There are plenty of beautiful villas in Bophut to visit including many with a private or shared pool.

    Visiting the beach in Bophut

    We always love a trip to the beach and being so close is ideal for us. Bophut has so much beautiful scenery and a stunning coastline too which I think will enable those perfect holiday shots. For a bit of a change of beach there are plenty of others around the island that you can travel to aswell. One thing to note for families is that Thailand is a modest country and therefore children do need to be in swimwear when on the beach which is something worth considering. Considering the warm weather and tropical climate you will want to keep skin protected in the heat too so plenty of sun protection is a must. Bophut beach does experience a narrow coastline at high tide which is something to be wary of but makes it ideal for families with young children in Bophut to use during the day.

    An aerial photograph of thai islands surrounded by turquoise blue seas and white sandy beaches
    Bophut is situated on the beautiful island of Koh Samui close to the mainland of Thailand.

    Fishermans Village

    Fishermans Village in Bophut is one of the oldest parts on the island and is regarded as very well preserved and elegant. It is located in the middle part of Bophut beach and is very popular. This is an excellent place to take the kids for shopping amongst the boutiques and housing plenty of dining venues. Another must see location with children is Big Budda Temple. It’s an iconic desintation.

    Dining Options

    There are plenty of places to eat in Bophut including western staples for picky eaters – ideal for young children as well as plenty of options for those wanting to try some local cuisine. There are plenty of freshly picked fresh thai fruit including bananas and coconuts which is great to know and they’re favourites here in our house already. Trational thai food in Bophut is the most affordable in the local resturants and markets. If you’re self catering a good idea is to have things available for breakfast and then eat out for the rest of your meals. Alternatively there are two Tesco Lotus stores in Chaweng and Lamai for snacks and supplies should you need them.

    Visiting Bophut, Koh Samui: a Thai island with children and exploring the area and villa accomodation
    Visiting Bophut, Koh Samui, Thailand with children and staying in a family friendly villa on a beach front location
  • #BepanthenProtects Challenge – #Ad

    #BepanthenProtects Challenge – #Ad

    #Ad – This post is an entry for the #BepanthenProtects Challenge, sponsored by Bepanthen. Learn more about how to protect baby’s sensitive skin on https://www.bepanthen.co.uk/.

    Felix is almost six months old and we have been using Bepanthen regularly since he was born. I was first recommended Bepanthen with my daughter over eight years ago and was happy to use it again when my son was born to help protect my babies skin against the causes of nappy rash. It’s a brand I trust as it’s a firm family favourite and has been around for such a long time.

    How We Protect Our Babies Skin

    Thankfully, so far, we have not had to deal with any nappy rash and there are plenty of things you can do to help protect your babies skin. Some of the things we are doing are:

    • Using reusable baby wipes with water
    • A mix of cloth and eco friendly disposable nappies
    • Regular nappy changes
    • Using a barrier cream to help protect my sons skin during nappy changes and after bath time
    • Giving my son nappy free time
    • Using a non-bio washing detergent

    We are right in the swing of teething and I was expecting to see some nappy rash as I know teething can make babies unsettled – Felix certainly hasn’t been enjoying those first teeth wrigging up through his gums! However, thanks to our routine we haven’t had to also suffer through nappy rash alongside. Bepanthen comes in a variety of sizes which make it easy to keep on our changing table and take on the go in his nappy change bag. We simply massage a little bit into his skin after he’s been cleaned up from a nappy change and away we go. We also apply a little bepanthen after bath time and it’s just become second nature really as a good barrier cream to help protect Felix’s skin.

    Helpful info you may not know about nappy rash and Bepanthen

    • A newborn baby’s skin is 40% thinner and also softer than adults, which makes it more sensitive to irritants, like those in wee and poo which can cause nappy rash when in contact with the skin. This is made worse by a tight nappy which both rubs and stops the air circulating.
    • Bepanthen has a kind-to-skin formulation: No fragrances; No colours; No preservatives; No parabens; No antiseptics)
    • Contains Provitamin B5 to help skin to repair its natural protective barrier
    • Bepanthen is clinically proven: It forms a transparent, breathable layer, helping to protect your baby’s skin from the irritants and rubbing that can cause nappy rash
    • Nappy rash affects 1 in 3 babies at some point , so protecting your baby’s bottom from getting red makes perfect sense, instead of waiting for your little one to suffer from a sore bottom.
    • During the first 12 months nappy rash is especially common as stools are more frequent. Nappy rash can cause discomfort to little one. With nappy rash baby may cry when washed or touched and wake during the night due to discomfort, meaning sleepless nights all round!
    • Bepanthen is so gentle it can be used straight from birth, including with premature babies and as often as required.
    • The most common cause of nappy rash is a combination of soiled nappies and friction. Nappy rash is also more likely to occur if your baby is premature, unwell, recovering from vaccination, weaning, suffering from diarrhoea, or prone to hereditary eczema.
  • Paying Off Debt in 2019 #AD

    My word of 2019 is More and one of the key focuses on this for me is to pay off more debt. It’s something I’ve just done the bare minimum about for a long time now and quite frankly I’m getting sick of seeing small regular amounts go out and hardly make a dent. This year I am putting the majority of my money into clearing my debt so that I can have a much cleaner and stable financial future. What’s really frustrating is most of this debt is from my early twenties and I’m now 30 so it’s time I firmly left the past behind and just got rid of the debt I’ve let build up.

    This really came about last summer when one of the debt collection agencies I’d been consistently paying £10 a month to offered me a settlement plan and they actually offered me a chance to pay it over six months in equal instalments raising it to about £32 a month. I decided to go for it as it would more than half the time I’d be paying it off and I knew it would make a huge difference. I was told that if I defaulted on one payment the settlement would be revoked and the full balance would be due again. I actually managed to clear it in November rather than January when I had a little bit of spare cash and decided it was better spent clearing the debt than making the last two month payments.

    How Do You Control Your Debt?

    Firstly it’s important to pay what you can afford, do not get into more trouble or sacrifice your basic needs when it comes to controlling debt. Speak financial experts or charities, open up conversations with any debt collection agencies and be completely honest about financial hardship. That being said if your disposable income increases then it is absolutely worth paying more debt to make your financial future healthier and actually it’s a real burden lifted when you close a debt account.

    I phoned around and emailed companies, registered for online management accounts and wrote down what I owed to who and how much. I worked out how long it would take for me to clear the debt with the current payments I was making. Most of them I was looking at five years or more just paying £5 a month despite almost all of those debts being under £1,000 each. I decided to try and work out how much I would have to pay to get my debt firmly under control within 24 months, the majority being cleared within 12 months.

    In November 2018 I worked out I had the following debts:
    Debt 1 owing £570
    Debt 2 owing £200
    Debt 3 owing £160
    Debt 4 owing £280
    Debt 5 owing £350
    Debt 6 owing £1750
    Debt 7 Owing £750
    I also had two credit cards which were close to being maxed out and almost owing the full balance
    Credit Card 1 at £290/£300
    Credit Card 2 at £640/£700

    That’s quite a lot of debt to lay on the table but show you the reality of what life is like with debt. Most of these I was paying around £5 or £10 a month and it just wasn’t really making much of a dent. I then went through our income and expenses and had enough disposable income to clear debt 3 in full on my debit card, which I did. I then called up debt 2 and asked to increase my monthly payments to £50 a month, clearing it in four months. On 6th March 2019 I will make my last £50 payment for a debt I borrowed almost five years ago when I was on income support and borrowed a loan to help with moving costs when I was coming close to leaving hostel accommodation and moving into a council flat.

    Then came the challenging tasks of dealing with debts 1, 4, 5 & 7 which were separate accounts with the same debt collection agency. I am able to manage these accounts online and have since increased my monthly payments to around £40 a month on each. It’s a big hit but I’ve set it up in a way I know I can meet the payments. It means one will be cleared in June, one in September and the other two I’ve set to clear within 12 months. My plan, however, is when each one clears I increase the payments on the others so that it actually takes less than the 24 months I have given myself to get out of debt.

    The biggest debt is the hardest one to deal with and for the time being I’ve increased the payment from £10 a month to £50 but ideally I would like to try and increase this to around £130 a month when I’ve cleared the other debts. This is the most difficult debt collection agency to deal with as the agents on the other end of the phone are rude, difficult to speak to, unsympathetic and threatening. It’s also for past water rates which is both mine and Adam’s responsibility so he is helping me with this one. For the rest though, I’m doing it myself.

    I’ve managed to arrange my repayments myself, but if you feel overwhelmed by large debts and you’re struggling to manage them, companies like Creditfix can help too.

    Give Yourself A Financial Check Up

    It’s really important to keep an eye on your finances and give yourself a financial check up from time to time. I’ve since cancelled a few subscriptions that I just wasn’t really using or made discount deals with providers to try and give myself a bit of a boost. I’ve been keeping a budget diary to see where we are overspending which was really shocking for January and has opened my eyes to just how careless we have been with disposable income.

    Both Adam and I have things we really want such as Adam learning to drive, buying a car, affording insurance, tax and fuel. I want to be debt free and in control of my money and save for a holiday to Disneyworld. We are only going to get the things we really want in our lives if we stop overspending on silly things that actually don’t really give us much joy and have resulted in a lot of ‘stuff’ that we don’t really need.

    Dealing With Credit Cards

    Credit Cards are being told to help get customers out of persistent debt on their balance. That’s where you are only making the minimum payment but that only really covers the interest so the actual balance of the card isn’t really coming down. You will be given a recommended extra payment each month to help you get out of persistent debt and actually start clearing your credit card balance. Customers do have control and as long as you’re making the minimum payment because that’s all you can afford then you can opt out of increased payments.

    However, if you can afford the extra payment it will help that balance come down much quicker which will in turn help your credit file. You can also set your own amount you want to pay back each month and make extra payments if you find yourself with extra disposable income. I have decided to set up direct debits for above the minimum payment and recommended payment and increased my lower balance card to £25 a month which is around £10 more than the amount asked for to help with persistent debt. I have increased the larger of the two to £40 a month which is more than double the minimum amount so that works out well for me and it’s nice to see the actual balance coming down.

    I’m not really thinking about getting rid of credit cards however I am getting in serious control of how and when we use them. I want to get them all down to 0 balance and then spend a small amount on each every month and pay back in full the following month. This way we have access to emergency funds and in theory over the years, will help show we are good lenders because we borrow and pay back quickly.

    Getting Started with Savings

    I am terrible when it comes to savings and saving for the future but I made a few changes last year and at the start of the year to combat this. The first thing I did was open up a pot for a private pension. At the moment I’m only putting £5 a month in the account which is a very small about but works out at around 5% of my average earnings. My plan is to increase this amount when I’m debt free to a more substantial figure and on a yearly basis my minimum amount will increase automatically by 10%. That means in January the payments went to £5.50 which at the moment is still very affordable and at least it is something.

    I’ve also found on my online banking a savings goal calculator which I’ve attached to my savings account. My plan is to save an amount each week until week 45 where, if I do it right, I should have £1,000 which I plan to use on Christmas. Week one started with £1, week 2 was £2 and so on. It works out well as I pay off more debt I will be able to commit to the increase in weekly savings and so the final payment of £45 on week 45 should bring my total to just over £1,000. Not only will I have cleared around 50% of my total debt and got my credit card balances to decrease but I’ll also have actual savings for a debt free Christmas. I’m also doing automatic savings through Plum which calculate small, regular amounts around your bills and income which I can withdraw at any time.

  • My Fairy Garden: Fairy Kitchen Garden Review #AD

    My Fairy Garden: Fairy Kitchen Garden Review #AD

    My Fairy Garden: Fairy Kitchen Garden was sent to us in exchange for this blog post. All opinions remain my own. This post may contain advertisement and affiliate links.

    I thought the Fairy Kitchen Garden would be something my mum would enjoy doing with Evie as she loves gardening and Evie is always picking her raspberries and “helping” her in the summer. My mum looks after Evie for a couple of hours every other Friday before she goes to her dads so it was a good chance for them to do something together.

    Fairy Kitchen Garden comes with a planter, Fairy, Fairy House and some pea shoots for planting. You just need to provide your own soil to create a lovely little Fairy Garden. When the pea shoots have grown through you can snip them off and eat them so I also thought it would be a great chance for Evie to learn a bit about growing food too.

    The Fairy Kitchen Garden is lovely and currently has pride of place in my mums Kitchen. Evie and her spent some time putting it together and then planting the seeds. The seeds need to be soaked in water between 6 and 24 hours before planting so I would recommend taking them out and popping in water the night before you want to make the Fairy Kitchen Garden.

    It’s quite simple to put the Fairy Kitchen Garden together and really does look very cute. It’s so quick and simple and a great activity to do with kids as it’s something that is quick to do at first but takes a bit of time to see something grow so it’s nice to see Evie want to help look after something, and hopefully, be proud of what she’s grown.

    We have just started seeing some of the first shoots come through which has really excited Evie!

    My Fairy Garden: Fairy Kitchen Garden is from Interplay and is available to buy on Amazon.