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  • Why Travel Is Important For Your Kids And Family

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    It can seem overwhelming, expensive and indeed not relaxing for you and while those points are certainly valid, it shouldn’t put you off traveling with your children and your family as the importance of this, and the benefits of travel certainly outweigh the cons.

    From cultural experiences to trying new foods, learning about different religions and different languages, there’s also the new adventures and experiences family bonding to gain from traveling with your children. If you open your children’s mind to travel from a young age, this plays a vital role in their development.

    While there are a few parents that don’t see the point in traveling with young children because they ‘won’t remember,’ what they don’t realize is that these valuable experiences encourage growth within your child. Just like reading stories to your little ones, the skills they acquire from holiday memories are irreplaceable.

    Opens Your Minds

    One of the best things about travel is that it’s a considerable mind opener – and not just for children. You can tell who the people are who have never done anything or been anywhere, the ones who only know what happens in their town. Give your child a great start in life by opening up their minds and give them a broader understanding of the world.

    From learning about cultural awareness to jumping head first into new and exciting experiences, travel works wonders in the minds of young children – it is far more effective than learning in the classroom! However, the classroom is critical too. While it may seem like a hassle to travel with your little ones, it’s an opportunity for them to receive more of their education in context. It serves as an education that even the youngest children can benefit from.

    Gives New Responsibilities

    Traveling, whether it be a holiday or road trip forces you to break away from those daily routines. Traveling with your children helps your young ones to accept new roles through decision making and skill development. Asking your children to pack their suitcases will teach them the value of packing and organizing, decision making and accepting responsibility for their things.

    Bonds The Family

    Whether it’s just you and your young one traveling together or it’s a whole family trip, traveling will no doubt strengthen relationships. Even if things are a little stressful and arguments happen, it is better for you to air those and get to know each other even better. Families share a whole range of experiences when traveling; you get the opportunity to teach your kids skills that you wouldn’t ordinarily have the chance to, whether it’s fishing or rock climbing, getting involved in a unique cultural experience encourages a sense of fun and adventure together. You could try an educational trip and take some inspiration by looking at companies who specialize in school trips from NST. Travel provides the perfect opportunity for you as a family to collect memories, not things.

    Boosts School Performance

    As your children experience real-life, travel can add tangibility to what your children are reading and learning about in school. Travel experiences can create a richer context and substance to what they’re learning in the classroom helps them to achieve higher grades.

    Increases Socialization Skills

    When traveling with your children, it allows them to connect with people all ages, all nationalities and all walks of life – people that can enrich their lives even further. Travel offers a diverse range of social opportunities, and as children, they learn very quickly, and they also don’t hold the fears and stereotypes and judgments that adults have as they get older. Children will speak to another child who speaks a different language, and they will find a way of communicating and playing.  

    Boosts Imagination

    On a trip or holiday, it isn’t uncommon for a child to complain of boredom. Perhaps you’re trying to get ‘your holiday’ too by reading and relaxing and having time off from entertaining the kids. Travel means that children can discover and engage in their interests. It allows them to empower themselves to make some decisions on their own, occupy their time and takes steps to avoid being ‘bored.’
    Travel is fantastic for the whole family, it is an excellent tool in the development of children and can help to provide a solid grounding in your own home, culture, and family. It doesn’t always have to be expensive either, camping trips, visiting friends or non-touristy places are all of equal value to your children and your family’s bonding experience.

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  • La Belle Sauvage – The Book Of Dust #1 Review

    La Belle Sauvage – The Book Of Dust #1 Review

    The Book of Dust: La Belle Sauvage is the first in a new trilogy by Philip Pullman. I first saw the His Dark Materials advertised in my school library when I was young and then went on to watch the film The Golden Compass. La Belle Savauge is a prequel to The Northern Lights book (The Golden Compass in the US) and I have really enjoyed getting back into the series. I first listened to the entire original His Dark Materials trilogy a few years ago thanks to Audible. *Contains Affiliate Links

    I was gifted the first Book of Dust La Belle Sauvage for Christmas in 2017 but I have only just got around to reading it and it is the first book I am reading for my 2019 reading challenge. Below you will find what I thought of the book! People may be here for The Book of Dust review, I did not know it was a new trilogy until I was told but the next Book of Dust The Secret Commonwealth will be the second in the new trilogy.

    Left; Blue Hardback Cover of La Belle Sauvage, The Book of Dust Book One, Right; Bookmark with Owls

    La Belle Sauvage Review

    La Belle Sauvage is the prequel to The Northern Lights and really sets up the scene for Lyra’s adventures. The main character is a young boy named Malcolm and his daemon Asta. He is an inquisitive, likeable and hardworking young boy that doesn’t really want to get himself into trouble but seems to be quite good at getting himself into some sticky conversations. La Belle Sauvage is very much an adventure story primarily set in Oxford in The Trout Inn and across the river in The Priory. Many characters from the His Dark Materials series are mentioned and introduced so it’s great to hear a bit more about them and their background.

    For those familiar with the series Lyra is in La Belle Sauvage but instead of a scrappy, witty and courageous young girl we find her in The Northern Lights she is instead a young baby. However, for those that haven’t read the other series it really shows how important she is and how many people are really interested in her. The book also goes in to the exploration of Dust and what it is, talking about stream of consciousness and all sorts of other interesting things.

    The book reads very easily and is a great adventure story for pre teens and those that loved the His Dark Materials trilogy. It’s a great read for parents to read to older children too although it’s a good 500+ pages so perhaps not one to do in one night. It actually took me around a week to read a hardback copy amongst parenting and family duties that I have to keep up with.

    The book has a very pro secular stand point and quite anti-religion. There was a particular chapter in the book that introduces The League of St Alexander which really made me feel how children can turn against an authority very quickly if being told what they’re doing is God’s work, despite it not being morally good, just or kind. Morality is a strong theme throughout the story and doing what is right vs what is good is often what Malcolm feels he has to choose between.

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    2019 Reading Challenge

    One of my goals for 2020 is to read 52 books or around one a week. Some might be new, some are ones I’ve had for a while or been meaning to read, some I haven’t quite finished yet and some will be recommendations from others. You can see all the books I’ve read so far on my Good Reads 2020 Reading Challenge.

  • Making Plans for 2019

    With a new year we often want to start making new plans. This could be anything from moving home, a new hobby or a holiday. I like creating my goals lists so I have some focus on what I’m doing with my blog and home too. I find this really helpful.

    Some people, however, might want to look at starting a business or turning their hobby into a business but might be lacking the funds to do so. This year I am planning on making more money as well as paying off more debt so that I can be more financially free and I am glad my business did not require much investment to start as I already had an established blog and following. However, for others that are more creative and make products a small business loan might be a better option if funds are low.

    I have recently seen so many small businesses creep up for homemade clothing, resuable wipes, eco friendly kits and journals which is amazing however they all had to start somewhere and that start often requires money. When it comes to loans you always need to make sure you can afford the monthly repayments and don’t borrow what you can’t afford to pay back. The first year of business is usually quite tough if you’re starting completely from scratch.

    When it comes to changing a hobby to a business and you already have a bit of a following getting your audience on board is usually a great idea and can really help give you some feedback. You will usually have your first customers or consumers from your following too and the best part is you probably already have your ideal customer which, hopefully, means that you wont make a loss in your first year of business.

    I think changing things up each year is healthy as long as you do it with care, consideration and responsibly.

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  • Would You Discovery Your Ancestry?

    Have you considered DNA testing? It’s something I’ve seen a lot recently with people searching into the depths of their history and finding out more about who they are. There are plenty of companies around that offer this service these days such as CRI Genetics and I have to admit it’s something I’m really interested in. I’ve seen copies of my family tree from one side of my family but I’d really like to find out more if I could.

    I’ve had members of the family look back on our history and the conversations it sparks are really interesting. I’ve seen how are family tree has developed through the years too and it’s so cool to see all these different branches from all over the country and more often than not, around the world. DNA Weekly is another resource that can help you when looking for DNA testing comparisons. The website provides In-depth and impartial reviews of leading DNA test kits, user-generated reviews of every DNA test kit we tested and detailed kit comparisons.

    I think we all wonder if there has been any connections with important people in history as well as if we’re biologically related to them. It’s also a great way to see where your family has originated from. If you’re considering DNA testing then I would recommended looking for a reliable company that specialises in this. It seems to be very popular and affordable these days and something I think a lot of ancestry based sites are looking into offering and making more accessible to all of those interested in finding out more about their history. I think it could open up some interesting biological discoveries.

    I think another interesting thing about finding out about your DNA history and ancestry is it sort of leaves a bit of a legacy for your own children so they know where they’ve come from and can have a great understanding about their own unique history. It seems you usually wait around 8 weeks to get the results back and an interesting report explaining the DNA analysis.

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  • January 2019 Goals

    January 2019 Goals

    This year I’ve decided to split my goals up into monthly blocks so that I can, hopefully, do and achieve more. I’ve tried to make them manageable but also a little out of my usual comfort zone so that I can really work towards something I want.

    I’ve decided against resolutions as such but I do have a word of the year. My word for 2019 is:

    Word of the Year is More, MORE on purple crystal background

    This means in 2019 I want to do more of the things I love rather than giving up or stopping things. I will be swapping things around a little bit and I’ve given myself a few monthly challenges for the year to hopefully help me get healthier, happier and enjoy my time more.

    My goals for January are:

    • Lose 1 Stone – I’m not going to do weekly weigh ins for this as I think that’s counter productive for me and I don’t want to focus too much on numbers but I equally know I need to get rid of some excess fat. So I am going to weigh in and measure on 1st January and then do it again on 31st January to see if I’ve made some progress.
    • Eat More Veggies – alongside this we are challenging ourselves to try more Vegan and Vegetarian meals as well as cutting out dairy and gluten. I’m inspired by Veganuary and I think this will help me be more creative with my meals and try more things. As for the dairy and gluten I just want a lighter month on the food front, I’ve been trying more plant based milks recently and I kind of want to ditch cheese.
    • Swim More – I love swimming and I am hoping to get out and use the Gym membership I haven’t really used since August due to pregnancy and then recovery. I want to swim at least once a week and plan to go in the evenings when Adam is now home to be here with the kids.
    • Dance More – another bid to make use of my membership and hopefully help with losing one stone so I am going to give Zumba a go. I really enjoy it when I do it and I think it will really help!
    • Earn £500 – more of a business goal but I really want to work on making a full time income from self employment. I’ve steadily grown since becoming self employed in 2015 and despite not working as much in 2018 I have done fairly well. I’m going to focus on having more structure to my working day and seeking out more opportunities.
    • Increase my Instagram followers by 25% – I want to do this because I really like Instagram and I want to get better at taking photos. I’m going to become much more active on there in January so I can hopefully, by the end of 2019, be at that crucial 10,000 followers mark. I’m going to look for photography challenges to join in with, get more active on stories, find more accounts I want to follow and just generally be much more active on there.

    What are your goals for the month or the new year and what are you doing to keep track of them?