Author: Kat Candyfloss

one thing i have seen really paving the way for sustainability is period protection. there is more being done to make it affordable and help eliminate period poverty, companies are speaking to activists about making disposables plastic free and there are more choices which are becoming available to all menstruators which is great.

i got my period at 11 years old and the option was plastic pads or tampons. i didn’t like the idea of tampons because toxic shock syndrome fear was drummed into me and my mum used pads so naturally i used pads. i had really heavy periods that lasted the full 7 days in a month at first so i went on the pill to try and control them as well as having perscriped painkillers to deal with the cramps which kept me off school from time to time. there are now loads of great things about periods including books, protection subscriptions and campaigns for eco friendly plastic free period protection.

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when i got the implant after my daughter was born my periods vanished and so did my period protection. however, after having my implant removed and of course having my son, i didn’t want to go back on the implant and instead i started looking into plastic free period protection.

so far i have learned about cups, discs, period pants, plastic free disposables and cloth reusables. after felix was born i used disposable maternity pads but for each period since i’ve used cloth sanitary protection and have a really nice stash of pretty pads to bleed onto every month. i’m learning more about my cycle, doing regular pelvic floor exercises (thirties plus pregnancy means it’s a must) and still researching other methods because i still have a heavy period, i’d like it to be a bit more mess free and i really like the idea of using a disc but as a fat person with short fingers i’m not sure i can.

and then there is period pants. i want high waisted knickers please. midi briefs constantly ride up under my overhang and rub and irritate my now twice opened c-section scar. i want them up and over. i’m yet to find decent period pants that are for a size 24/26 – please reccomend some if you know.

there is a cup with a long stem and ring pull which looks promising but i’m not sure i’ll work well with a cup. i have tried and inserting it was just difficult and left me frustrated. so i’m currently looking into using a menstural disc but i don’t know if i’ll be able to use one and get it in position properly. it’s really frustrating.

i like the thought of a disc because it sits higher than a cup so hopefully i won’t feel it but i can’t actually reach my cervix so i’m not sure i’ll be able to reach the pubic bone to tuck the disc behind. i would be happy to hear any recommendations!

we have all seen no doubt the devestating images of vulnerable, elderly and emergency worker photographs trying to shop from empty shelves in supermarkets. grocery stores and supermarkets are trying to put measures in place to prevent stockpilling but it’s got out of hand. we have been told that there is enough for everyone but yet people are panic buying all sorts of weird things.

i understand in times of panic the need to control something, anything and perhaps this is why so many are stockpilling. the uncertainty, unknown prospects for the next 12 weeks is concerning however we really don’t need to be preventing the vulnerable from getting their basic shop. i have had plenty of worries and anxieties during this.

if you have excess supply of anything or more than your family needs please consider donating any of the following items to your local food bank, shelter, refuge or making care packages for vulnerable people:

• sanitary and/or incontinence protection
• personal hygiene products particularly soap
• nappies and formula
• tins of anything
• uht longlife milk
• biscuits
• easter eggs
• packeted products like noodles, soups and pasta

do not take advantage during this time. people are being made redundent, work places are closing, people are vulnerable, scared and many are losing money. be kind.

if you are in a position of priviledge and able to change how you shop i have a few suggestions of reusables and subscriptions that are helping me and my family during this time of uncertanty.

• reusable wipes. we use cheeky wipes personally which are great. they have a backlog at the moment but they are worth it. they will save you quite possibly hundreds in pounds on wet wipes in the long run. theres a video below in how to use cheeky wipes. they’re much better at cleaning babies up than regular wet wipes. they will save you money. they will reduce your plastic waste. alternatively, you can cut up old towels, flannels or make your own if you can sew.

• reusable nappies. try switching out one disposable for a reusable each day. these can be bought second hand on ebay, facebook groups and you might find some great deals on cloth nappies right now. we have a great stash of these including tots bots, baba + boo, bambino mio, tickle tots and close pop-ins. i’ve written up a bit more about cloth nappies and how we use them here.
• cloth sanitary protection. this is also known to some as csp. other options of reusable period protection include menstural cups and discs. put a cup in it has a great quiz to find out what might be the best fit. i get most of my cloth protection from etsy.

subscriptions that are helping me feed my family

get £20 off with hello fresh – this is a box we are buying weekly. it’s currently costing us around £35 a week for 4 meals for 4 people. there is enough food from this box for us to make leftovers which are substantial meals for lunch. there are plenty of options, fresh vegetables and we are trying lots of new recipes especially now i have the time to cook. i have a referral code which gives you £20 off your first box. you can sign up to hello fresh here.

we are all anxious about a period of quarantine, not sure what to do, how to work, financial worries and children being stuck indoors and getting bored of learning from home. i wanted to write up a few things you can try and add into your daily routine to keep everyone feeling upbeat and energised. i’ve written up a post about things you can do during self isolation which has a few more ideas and explains the differences between self isolation and a nation wide lockdown.

the most important thing during a nation wide quarentine or lockdown is to maintain and observe social distance of at least 2 metre or around six foot, but more if you can. most places will be closed and shops like supermarkets will likely only allow certain amount of people in at a time. it’s also not advisable to visit family or have people over as a preventative measure and if someone becomes ill in the household, attempt to maintain social distance from the family member in the house too. most importantly, wash your hands frequently through the day and encourage children to do the same.

start the day together by opening up the windows to get some fresh air into the home and getting everyone to make their bed. then enjoy breakfast together if you’re feeling well enough to do that. we are in a flat and the air can feel stagnant quickly if we can’t get out and about. we also don’t have access to a garden as i’ve mentioned many times before but getting plenty of natural light and fresh air into the home to circulate can be a mood booster for me.

the schools are closing during the spring term which means more daylight and that is a positive for me. i feel so much better during the lighter months of the year, more productive and more able to get up and get things done. this would have been harder in january for me for sure.

find a way to enjoy movement together. this could be a walk together, providing people are allowed to leave the house for a walk together. joining in with joe wicks early morning pe classes on his youtube channel. doing some yoga or having a daily dance party.

get creative with your pantry. people are stockpilling all kinds of crazy things and this will die down when people move to acceptance of this weird kind of world. i feel like i’m at the acceptance stage really, and my fears and worries are more about adam’s place of work than anything else now that schools have announced closure. i know we will be able to still continue feeding our family. before we head back to the shops for supplies we will be using as much as we possibly can that we already have. that might include some weird and wonderful creations but at least we will not be going hungry. getting the kids involved can be a great way to give them something to do and keep them occupied too.

use this as a chance to get things changed in this country. working from home has never been so important. show your employers that home working is doable, show them how beneficial flexible working can be. perhaps this will lead to some changes in work patterns that are desperately needed in this country to support parents, part time workers, those requiring flexi hours or those that have additional needs. if we can show our employers how working from home can work well for all involved it could go hand in hand with changing some key leglisation and work from home policies.

now is your chance to try and do something new if you’re having to stay away from work and observing social distancing. if you have the time and you’re well enough to do so try something new. learn a language or pick up an instrument, have a go at creating or crafting. try some new recipes together. perfect your baking skills. do an online course. there are plenty of things you can do that will help keep your mind occupied. we’ve likely got around 12 weeks of this isolation period and that’s quite a lot of time to try something different. fitting this into your every day life will mean that you have something to look forward to.

take some time to read together. not only will this really help children with their reading, writing and vocabularly, it will give you some quiet time to pick up a book you’ve wanted to read for ages. a kindle is a great source of entertainment for me and allows me to have a library in my lap. i have a shelf of books i want to read this year and i’m trying to complete a reading challenge of 52 books. the time ahead will probably mean i reach that challenge much sooner than i anticipated.

whilst many of us will have to work and will struggle with the isolation there are things we can do to keep in contact with loved ones. write letters, face time and video chat regularly, email people and participate in groups on facebook or other social media. keep in touch with people. stay safe. it’s easy to feel uncertain about this, this is pretty overwhelming for many but we will get through this. this too shall pass.

maintain social distancing, only go out if for exercise or supplies as and when you need them. don’t take more than you need unless you’re helping vulnerable people. wash your hands.

people are taking it among themselves to self isolate during this outbreak of coronavirus, properly known as covid-19 and there’s plenty of speculation of people worrying about what to do, getting bored and being stuck in with kids. i know it’s a daunting thought with leisure facilities being closed and maintaining social distance, it’s a time we might feel alone, genuinely isolated or worried. i also know that i have anxiety and planning for the worst is pretty much what i do best.

with schools now closed, we are facing the realistic view of non-vital workplace closures to try and flatten the curve and lessen pressure from nhs and public services. we all have a responsibility and quite frankly everyone’s economoy is going to suffer globally. in my opinion, much better to self isolate just in case and avoid risking passing this harmful virus on to vulnerable people. i’ve also written up my plans for how i’m continuing my child’s education which you might find useful.

what is self isolation?

self isolation is for those that, at time of writing, have a new persistent cough and/or high temperature. it’s also for those who have travelled from countries displaying large positive tests, if you’ve been in contact with someone that has tested positive or have any of the symptoms of covid-19.

self isolation is a period of time where you remain in your home. if you are self isolating you can not go outside for an initial period of seven days. if your symptoms are cleared within 7 days, you are feeling well enough to do so, then you are able to return to your normal activities. if you are still feeling unwell you are advised to contact nhs 111 service and seek further advice. if only one person as symptoms in the household you are supposed to maintain social distance of 1-2metres but good luck doing that with kids, especially a toddler. i understand the importance of this, but i also know in reality my kids aren’t going to stay away from me if we self isolate. the new advice says if one person in a household develops a new dry continous cough and/or a fever (high temperature) then the household must self isolate for 14 days.

you need to ask family/friends to help with deliveries/errands such as topping up electric, getting food or drink. if you have access to a garden you are allowed in your garden as that is part of your property. you might be able to work from home and there are plenty of online resources for children to continue learning if they feel well enough to do so.

during self isolation you might not have covid-19 and might be well enough to do plenty of things. also as parents of children with a cough/cold or high temperature it seems when faced with calpol they can be suprisingly resillient and ‘bounce back.’ the list below is to help alleviate some boredom and give a bit of inspiration.

what is the difference between self isolation and lockdown?

the difference is a country wide lockdown or quarentine does not mean self isolation. if the country is in lockdown and any members of the family display symptoms of covid-19 then you would need to remain in your home. if the country is on lockdown you will be able to leave the house but you might not find there is much to do.

when a country is in quarantine or lockdown it usually means that any place that is not a public necessity would shut for a period of time. this includes leisure facilities such as cinemas, swimming pools, shopping centres and sporting grounds. this is to prevent mass gatherings and to help comply with social distancing.

during lockdown because of covid-19 in the uk it is likely that schools and workplaces will close but supermarkets, some resturants that offer takeout/delivery and pharmacies would remain open. doctors appointments may be rearranged or rescheduled as emergency only. places that are open would require social distancing of around 1-2m space per person and only a limited amount of people would be allowed in one place at any one time.

you will probably be allowed to go for a walk or run for fresh air, but parks and outside leisure facilities may be closed. social distancing will have to be observed in all cases too. even if you are working from home it’s going to be tough with children around – i should know, i currently attempt to!

some of the ideas below might be useful if you’re workplace and school is closed and you need some fresh ideas to break up the day.

24 things to do when in social isolation with children at home

1. let each family member pick a film to watch and make each night a family film night
2. read together and then discuss the book you’ve read or ask your child to review a book they haven’t read yet
3. look for fun kids workout videos on youtube, like yoga
4. make a playlist of your favourite songs and host a dance competition
5. star in a family fashion show
6. look for some educational apps such as duolingo to learn together
7. get everyone to write a story in 500 words or less and read them out together
8. put blankets on the floor and have a picnic lunch or dinner
9. encourage children to help with housework, cleaning and meal prep
10. play some video games together
11. look through old photo albums and talk about your favourite memories
12. facetime or skype with a relative or friend
13. go through your cookbooks and find some new recipes you’d all like to try
14. take the chance to declutter and sort old clothes if you have the room to store them until you can donate and/or sell on
15. let the kids create a menu of the day
16. bake something if you have the ingredients, if you have some of the ingredients pinterest might have some interesting ideas or you can look for raw/unbaked goods.
17. take a day time nap
18. bubble baths any time of the day
19. have a family pamper session. you don’t need anything fancy, you could do each others nails and give each other hand massages with hand cream or use up any facemasks you might have.
20. learn a dance routine
21. do a puzzle together
22. find an audiobook and listen together
23. create a scrapbook with any printed photos you might have
24. if you’ve been meaning to decorate a room now might be a good chance to start by rearranging things. if you’ve already got the supplies get it done or take the time to do any diy work or deep cleans that need doing.